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Hollaback! Bystander Intervention Digital Training - Shared screen with speaker view
stomatore
09:42
Suzanne Tomatore, She/hers, midtown
Jessie
09:52
my name is jessie. i use she/they. queens, ny
Lawrence Walters
10:07
Lawrence Walters, Chicago, he/him
Mari
10:08
Mari Corella, she/her, San Francisco, CA
FearsomeFactor
10:19
I’m Joanne. Originally from NY, now in Seattle.
Lawrence Walters
57:18
Distract.... the one person with the candy gets between them
Mari
57:20
At first I didn’t know what was happening and didn’t know who the harasser was.
FearsomeFactor
57:37
distract, direct
Kathi
57:37
same
Jessie
57:51
someone stepped between the two people
Kathi
58:19
looked like another person came in to offer to take her to safety
Lawrence Walters
59:30
oh, Document, too
Lawrence Walters
01:04:19
Directly..... I didn't think there was a big safety concern to confronting the woman doing the harrassing
stomatore
01:04:23
Dynanmic is a little different with no physical violence
stomatore
01:04:31
just an obnoxious person
Mari
01:04:39
I would assess the situation for my safety and the safety of others. I would say “I do not agree with what you are saying and you are upsetting me. Please stop.”
stomatore
01:04:50
thumbs up to Mari
FearsomeFactor
01:05:04
Direct. Tell that woman (and everyone else) that no I don’t share her views, and I believe others don’t.
Mari
01:09:09
If we are the ones being harassed and there are bystanders who are not assisting, is there anything that can be done to activate their assistance?
Lawrence Walters
01:10:55
Thanks for the awesome presentation... the videos and "what would you do" are great exercises..... you wouldn't happen to have a handout with the 5 ds on it?
stomatore
01:11:02
Is the presentation going to be available as well? You mentioned the recording but I am wondering about the materials.
FearsomeFactor
01:12:22
Thanks for a very useful presentation!
Mari
01:13:14
Thank you! This was very insightful and I appreciate the easy, actionable steps. Looking forward to sharing my knowledge with friends.
stomatore
01:13:18
Thank you! The infographics and presentation were all great.
FearsomeFactor
01:13:38
I teach personal safety skills, and have been trying to get this type of material in classes, but there seems to be little interest. Any thoughts on how to promote bystander intervention?
Jessie
01:14:57
i work with youth and i often hear about cases of harassment by peers but they are not often willing to intervene. what are tools youth can use to build safety skills amongst their peer groups?
Kathi
01:16:08
thank you! everything was so clearly presented and I feel empowered to intervene safely
FearsomeFactor
01:16:47
One form of harassment we see is the posting of signs, where the harasser(s) did their deed and are gone, leaving posters on fences and bulletin boards. Any thoughts on how to deal with those situations?
FearsomeFactor
01:18:27
Thanks!
stomatore
01:18:59
Im heading back to work. Thank you!
Lawrence Walters
01:19:20
likewise, thank you! I'm heading out as well
Mari
01:19:28
Heading out. Thank you!!!
Kathi
01:19:37
thank you! great presentation