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Brenda
08:00
you're so inspirational!
cheryl
10:31
Thats amazing. Well done x
amandashaw
10:36
Well done Patrick that’s amazing :)
Gabrielle Grode
10:53
I think that’s HUGE- remembering who you are. I’ve been realizing a lot lately that all the accomplishments in the world don’t build my confidence unless I connect to who I am, my power, my strength
stellalopez
20:01
That happens to me too…the food thing…wow.
stellalopez
21:11
I understand you so much. I am always asking myself “what is wrong with me.”
cheryl
21:12
What a relief to hear,,it's not just me. You have brought tears to my eyes x
Brenda
21:51
brought tears to my eyes too! So powerful!
Malin Öjavad
23:33
Everything you say resonates with me, Patric. Sitting in my car unable to stop crying. But good tears! The ones that needs to come out and carries heaps of stress and shame with them. THANK YOU!
Brenda
25:39
thank you Patrick for this!
amandashaw
26:12
Thank you so much for sharing this Patrick
Joanna
36:37
Oh Patrick, I'm so sorry you went through this. From the bottom of my heart.
Lisa Frattini
54:18
Amanda, believe it or not, the people you love will adjust
amandashaw
54:58
Thanks Lisa, yeah I’m slowly getting better at saying no…
Joanna
55:10
Amanda, its so hard and hearing it from somenoe else doesn't do shit. Have to feel it inside!!! xo
Isabel van der Vlugt
55:20
And Amanda, setting your own boundaries instead of other people setting your boundaries, will feel empowering! And it will make you feel confident about yourself!
Alexander
55:21
Amanda, did you see Aidas zoom call on values? Living a value based life will really help.
Lisa Frattini
55:33
I had this same thing with my mom years ago -- so much guilt, so much obligation. then one time on a family vacation, she was like, "fine i'm going to the beach alone then." and I was like, "Ok! See you later." and it was hard but it just came out and it was pretty lifechanging
Lisa Frattini
55:47
for both of us
Tina
55:55
Amanda, try looking at it as you are saying yes to yourself. instead of saying no to someone.
Lisa Frattini
55:55
people will really be fine
amandashaw
56:15
Yeah definitely good to set your own boundaries… I’ve started to do that… last week I did that which really helped :)
amandashaw
56:54
You do have to feel assertive inside agreed :)
amandashaw
57:21
I’ll check out Aida’s zoom call on values
amandashaw
57:51
Good for you Lisa for being strong enough to do that
amandashaw
58:18
I love that Tina - yes to myself - that’s great
amandashaw
58:42
Thanks :)
Lisa Frattini
58:46
oh I felt absolutely terribly afterwards, but I knew it was right. and that helped me tolerate the guilt + discomfort
amandashaw
59:28
That’s brilliant Lisa… I think sometimes I can be assertive but there are times it can be a little more tricky lol
Alexander
01:00:09
Amanda, I’ll copy you in on a follow up discussion in the FB group. Once I started living my life based on my values, guilt dropped and decisions became easier. Not easy, but easier. It’s still work in progress for me.
Lisa Frattini
01:00:30
for sure. and that's exactly right. not easy but it gets easier <3
amandashaw
01:01:22
Thanks Alexander that’s really appreciated, yeah I think I need to re visit my values… I did do that with a life coach a while back but I probably need to revisit that
amandashaw
01:02:19
It gets easier the more you allow yourself to push out on things I guess
Malin Öjavad
01:04:33
When was Aidas call on values? Which one is it? Thanks!
Alexander
01:05:34
Malin, I’ll copy you into the FB flow-up
Tina
01:07:31
Malin - February 25
Alexander
01:10:43
Thanks Patrick❤️
amandashaw
01:11:02
Thanks Patrick :)
Tina
01:11:22
Thank you Patrick for sharing. This was agreat session
cheryl
01:11:41
Thanks so very much Patrick