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Slay the Imposter Syndrome Dragon! - Shared screen with speaker view
Cia Watson
16:03
I'm eating lunch, so off camera for now anyway.
Amy Jacques
16:13
Me too Cia!
Jaimee Dawly
17:33
my camera is not working..I will keep trying to make it work
Pam Anderson
17:51
Having camera issues
Scott Miller, Bloomington, IL
18:07
Great to know you're a real person, Sue!!!! 😘
Pam Hoffman
18:21
No camera on my monitor
Tricia Williams
19:01
Nice to meet everyone!
Stacey Gordon
21:00
@Tricia, same!
Darcy Mertz Krewson
21:28
No camera on the computer I am using. From Texas
Ellen Ward-NM
21:29
👍🏻
Rick Bertino
21:33
no idea
Elizabeth Solar
21:33
Oh yeah. Like you read about.
Lara Traube
21:35
👍🏻
Melissa Papke - Orange County, CA
21:46
Learn more about Larry here:Larry’s Website:https://larrybroughton.me/
Fran Jessee Hemet CA
22:23
👍🏼
Michelle Caprio, VA Beach
24:14
Please post the link for the Leaders are Reader group. Thanks you
Virginia L Hume
24:48
I am also dyslexic.
Roelf Woldring Guelph Ontario
24:57
the psychology of trust is simple - you extend trust to others but they don't necessarily reciporcate it back to you - in doing so you are taking a risk - not many people recognize this - so con people and imposters take advantage of this basic interpersonal dynamic - imposter syndrome deepens this dynamic is powerful ways - self doubt generates an ever bigger need to interacting with people you want to trust - so you are every more vunerable to not recognize that extend trust means taking this kind of risk
Christine Bedalow, Chicago
25:08
I hope you did not believe her.
Nia Jackson-McClure
25:19
Powerful
Melissa Papke - Orange County, CA
25:41
Leaders Are Readers Book Club:https://www.alignable.com/groups/leaders-are-readers-book-club
Nia Jackson-McClure
25:53
Will the recording be sent out afterwards?
Christine Bedalow, Chicago
26:02
Im dyslexic too and it is your superpower
Melissa Papke - Orange County, CA
26:08
Yes, Sue will be sending out the recording
Stephanie Pratt
26:11
your story sounds like mine.
Gabriel Hostalet
27:46
Hi every one, Gabriel from Kingston plastics manufacturer by Injection Molding 8473666971, kingstonplastics@gmail.com. Helping individuals and companies with product design, manufacturing and cost reduction programs
Jolie Roy - Chicago, IL
27:56
I get mad at myself!
Amy Peacock
28:02
All. So much serendipity today.
Christine Bedalow, Chicago
28:02
all of the above
Sharifa Walker
28:06
All three
Virginia L Hume
28:09
all
Stacey Gordon
28:13
Yes!
Eileen Gould
28:17
yes, all three
Jaimee Dawly
28:23
I am a leader
John E Flanagan
28:24
Entrepreneur, Business Owner
Nikki Turner
28:34
all mentioned
Tricia Williams, Lake Park, GA
28:41
All 3.
Tricia Williams, Lake Park, GA
29:27
Tricia WilliamsMy Tribe Print & Promo, LLC.Female, Native American Owned Businesswww.MyTribePnP.comTricia@MyTribePnP.com936.494.9754
Nia Jackson-McClure
29:37
This transparency is sooo encouraging!
Janíce Obee San Ramon, CA
30:01
Yes, to all 3…
Virginia L Hume
30:29
Fear means you care.
Pam Hoffman
30:33
Compare and Despair
Nia Jackson-McClure
30:58
Hi fellow encouragers! 👋🏽Nia Jackson-McClureCommercial Capital ConsultantTranscend Commercial Capital“I help business owners get funding”nia@transcendcommercialcapital.com404-795-7035
Nia Jackson-McClure
31:31
“You’re only alone if you CHOOSE to be.” -YES!
Daniel DeBlasio Jr
31:43
YES
Sue Brooke Moreno Valley, CA
32:23
Please use chat for questions not to promote your business…thanks!
Amy Jacques
32:37
Thank you, Sue.
Evelyn Vieira
33:08
That’s a great quote! So true, real imposters don’t ever question themselves.
Walter II Boykin
33:24
Wowww. Thank you
Kevin Burlace
33:48
this is awesome - is there anyway to get a recording of this?
Stacey Gordon
34:41
Competence breeds confidence…
Luz Maria Lambert
35:00
Luz-Maria Lambert. I offer Financial literacy workshops and financial coaching. I am a licensed and certified professional. https://luzalta7.wixsite.com/lambertsassociates 917-602-6989 "free consultation"
Padheyssa Victor
35:22
Hi Everyone!👋🏾 I'm Padheyssa I have a Virtual Operation Management company helping business owners with administrative work n strategizing for their business www.iassistu123.com or contact@iassistu123.com we work with all type of businesses.
Nia Jackson-McClure
36:11
Trying new things…yes
Roelf Woldring Guelph Ontario
36:46
when working with underperforming groups, on of the things I have to create was opportunities for them to expeirence success - success breeds competence which breeds confidence which leads to the energy to tackle bigger challenges
Virginia L Hume
37:06
I do have a mentor. This makes a big difference.
Nia Jackson-McClure
37:39
Absolutely- most common
Virginia L Hume
38:21
I do have my strengths report. Your top 10-14 help you a lot.
Luz Maria Lambert
38:35
mentorship makes a huge differnce
Walter II Boykin
40:37
Yes
Scott Miller, Bloomington, IL
40:38
jAmen!!!!
Michelle Caprio, VA Beach
40:38
I recently took advantage of a complimentary Character Strengths Finder from Cedric LaFleur. Here is a link. https://www.lafleurleadershipinstitute.com/#PersonalityTest
Michelle Caprio, VA Beach
41:08
It was very helpful
Christopher McLaughlin
41:31
Thanks MC
Lara Traube
41:37
I keep a list of weekly wins to look back often.
Daniel DeBlasio Jr
41:50
👍
Michelle Caprio, VA Beach
42:11
You are welcome.
Janelle Dauenhauer
42:28
I keep a success journal of my big and small accomplishments. Great to reflect on when I'm not feeling like I'm succeeding. I'm always succeeding!
Roelf Woldring Guelph Ontario
43:06
Bob Kegan's book In over our Heads: The Mental Demands of Modern Life was a book which completely changed the way I worked with my direct reports as an executive leader - Bob lays out a lot of hte dynamics that modern life put on us and generate this feeling of 'not being good enough https://www.amazon.com/Over-Our-Heads-Mental-Demands/dp/0674445880
Dave Braun, Irvine CA
43:23
I keep a box with printed out thank you emails, notes, etc. And behind me is my patents on the wall, and I see them constantly. It helps!
Nia Jackson-McClure
43:50
Vision Board
Michelle Caprio, VA Beach
43:55
Mr. LaFleur recommends keeping a success Journal and every night reflect how you used a personal strength and who it impacted. Over the course of a year, I will be able to se my little wins!
Michelle Caprio, VA Beach
44:29
5 minutes, big win
Janíce Obee San Ramon, CA
44:52
🙂
Nia Jackson-McClure
45:09
Yes- excellent framework
Dave Braun, Irvine CA
45:15
Setup a google my business page and have people give you reviews there. You can read them whenever, grab them for your site, and works well for SEO!
Michelle Caprio, VA Beach
47:32
Here's a quote I love: "Failure is successes' constant companion." Regina Bryan
Jim Gray - Cleveland, Oh
47:52
Failure is a learning experience
Michelle Caprio, VA Beach
49:35
"Seven times down, eight times up." from my martial arts days
Barbara Richmond
50:00
Face your Fear and Do it Anyway
Daniel DeBlasio Jr
50:12
AMEN
Melissa Papke - Orange County, CA
50:12
If you're not failing, you're not learning anything new
Steve Kent - NYC
50:40
FAIL first attempt in learning
Marc Sharkey
51:05
“Do not judge me by my successes, judge me by how many times I fell down and got back up again.”― Nelson Mandela
Daniel DeBlasio Jr
51:20
👍
Melissa Papke - Orange County, CA
51:51
Sign up page for VICTORY in Life, Leadership and Businesshttps://groupsfinder.alignable.com/expert-groups/victory-in-life-leadership-and-businessNext Info Session:We just did an info session today and the Info page hasn’t been updated yet, so if you’d like to sign up for next week’s info session, please go here to sign up:https://www.alignable.com/groups/expert-group-info-sessions/events/victory-in-life-leadership-business-info-session-jan-2023-3?cyattr=t-r-1&cyfid=670fe97e290044edb7df530cb66699fe
Melissa Papke - Orange County, CA
52:02
Yoogozi Mastermind Pagehttps://yoogozimastermind.com/
John Caballero
52:20
Great presentation
Nia Jackson-McClure
53:04
Wonderful presentation!
Daniel DeBlasio Jr
53:16
Agreed
Kaylen Brown
53:29
Seriously, very helpful?!
Shanna Rone, MD
53:36
Wonderful advice - Larry
Melissa Papke - Orange County, CA
54:01
Kolbe A Index:https://secure.kolbe.com/k2/show_takeIndex/indexType_A?campaignid=10504076281&adgroupid=109620034690&adid=484169250128&gclid=CjwKCAiA2fmdBhBpEiwA4CcHzcyP9I1-pcgmfUcpOOqKz-vVUhNF-n99v5q3wB3QbIXTkBirgKJe8hoCZBUQAvD_BwE
Melissa Papke - Orange County, CA
54:25
CliftonStrengths assessment:https://www.gallup.com/cliftonstrengths/en/252137/home.aspx?utm_source=google&utm_medium=cpc&utm_campaign=california_us_strengths_branded_cs_ecom&utm_term=cliftonstrengths&gclid=CjwKCAiA2fmdBhBpEiwA4CcHzYZFFlvEeztococOcOeg8bbuY7Fg-7a7PQ69WT3QgDNP6Ig-bHx6VBoCo4YQAvD_BwE
Scott Miller, Bloomington, IL
54:25
Kolbe.com has some great assessments for kids and adults...
Colleen Davis
54:27
Even in adversity, I practice breath work/meditation first thing in the morning to set my intention, otherwise one will get stuck in the looping squirrel brain and human restlessness
Amy Peacock
55:24
I love Strength Finders! Great way to honor and lead with your strengths and partner up (and forgive yourself) on your weaknesses.
Nia Jackson-McClure
56:45
There’s some amazing Masterminds that are psychology based
Janelle Dauenhauer
56:51
As a photographer, I love the mentoring I receive from a couple of groups I'm in
Roelf Woldring Guelph Ontario
57:11
In the 70+ Entrepreneurs group Fran Jesse and I are looking forward to creating this kind of peer mentoring exchange as part of the goals for 2023 since there are more and more of us wanting to based entrepreneurial success based on our past executive and business successes
Nia Jackson-McClure
57:55
I think the best are super specific to your situation
Jonathan Peralta
58:05
My Daily Affirmation helps me start my day right. I have kinda sense of direction especially I'm working as an entrepreneur.
Kaylen Brown
58:41
Overstood!
Janelle Dauenhauer
59:07
@MichelleGuillet, consider joining Jennifer Allwood's entrepreneur group for guidance. She's an amazing entrepreneur who's the real deal. Helped me a lot
Roelf Woldring Guelph Ontario
59:46
This might help you think through who might be a good mentor for you and then yes do the discovery process
Roelf Woldring Guelph Ontario
59:48
https://the-right-talent.ca/coach-resource-1-the-is-this-the-right-business-coach-for-you-checklist/
Ellen Ward-NM
01:00:16
@Michelle Guillet Tawnya Sutherland is excellent for building your VA Biz https://www.vanetworking.com/members/aff/go/elcoprod She's in Canada
John E Flanagan
01:00:47
You will be the toughest boss you've ever had!
Walter II Boykin
01:00:58
Thank you! I am sweating through the stages
Ellen Ward-NM
01:01:17
@Michelle Guillet - Tawnya is also a coach
Ana-Maria McKessy
01:01:40
I’ve come across someone that coaches for that - if you send me a message, I can get her info for you - can’t recall off hand.
John E Flanagan
01:04:08
I've got to go, have a Great Day everyone!
Roelf Woldring Guelph Ontario
01:05:24
imposter syndrome makes it sound like a deep feature of your personality - limiting beliefs, which is what NLP, reframes this dynamic as, offers a more hopeful framework because most folks seem to think that beliefs are easier to change than syndromes are to overcome
Michelle L Dallaire Radloff
01:05:39
Interesting info. Thanks.
Mario Herfy aka The Herf - The Financial Ninja
01:07:08
Good afternoon everyione
Janelle Dauenhauer
01:07:25
Beautiful story of your mom, Dave
Mario Herfy aka The Herf - The Financial Ninja
01:07:25
*everyone
Randall Rousse
01:07:31
Great Discussion and Q&A from Everyone...
Roelf Woldring Guelph Ontario
01:07:43
talk about a limiting belief = that we cannot overcome things like limiting beliefs in our 70's because we are 'older' - as both of these chaps are pointing out social support is key = which is why Fran and I are so excited about what we can collectively accomplish in 70+
Mario Herfy aka The Herf - The Financial Ninja
01:07:43
Your mom sounds awesome, Dave
Melissa Papke - Orange County, CA
01:07:59
Sign up page for VICTORY in Life, Leadership and Businesshttps://groupsfinder.alignable.com/expert-groups/victory-in-life-leadership-and-businessNext Info Session:We just did an info session today and the Info page hasn’t been updated yet, so if you’d like to sign up for next week’s info session, please go here to sign up:https://www.alignable.com/groups/expert-group-info-sessions/events/victory-in-life-leadership-business-info-session-jan-2023-3?cyattr=t-r-1&cyfid=670fe97e290044edb7df530cb66699fe
Roelf Woldring Guelph Ontario
01:08:05
70+ Entrepreneurs on Alignable
Dave Braun, Irvine CA
01:08:24
She is! Sometimes I get frustrated with my mom, but if I was in her position, I’d likely be MUCH less positive than she is.
Lynn D. Arnold
01:09:18
I love John C. Maxwell
Dave Braun, Irvine CA
01:09:26
We go out to breakfast each week and do a couple of errands, and we are friends with all the servers and she loves to give them extra money. She’s generous for sure and a good role model for that.
Lynn D. Arnold
01:09:38
15 Invaluable Laws of Growth
Jeannine Rick Phoenix AZ
01:09:46
Failing at something doesn't make you a failure.
Amy Peacock
01:10:06
#Failforward
Janelle Dauenhauer
01:10:26
Failure is a stepping stone to success. No one is successful without failing first
Barbara Cassidy-Branson MO
01:10:39
All my dads patents came from problems we experienced as a family
Roelf Woldring Guelph Ontario
01:11:03
One of the toughest things to create as an executive growing the next generation of corporate leaders was to engineer situations in which people learned to overcome failure - failure which destroys confidence is devasting - failure which is appropriate mentored and caught before it becomes a diasaster was key to creating reslience - the ability to keep going in the face of setback and learn from them rather than be demoralized by them
Michelle Guillet - BC, Canada!
01:12:00
I’d like to say THANK YOU to everyone who reached out to me today, you guys are the best. High five to community!!! 🥰
Michelle Caprio, VA Beach
01:12:39
Great webinar. Thank you Larry.
Mario Herfy aka The Herf - The Financial Ninja
01:13:46
Keith Cunningham has a great book called: The Road Less Stupid, our teams use it as a tool and as a benchmark as well. Highly recommend it to everyone. https://www.amazon.com/Road-Less-Stupid-Advice-Chairman-ebook/product-reviews/B077NXPL4L?pageNumber=8
Roelf Woldring Guelph Ontario
01:14:45
military after action review work by bringing together social support with learning from events - creating resilence - resilence is a distinquishing characteristic of adaptive leaders - as opposed to 'do it my way or else' more authoritarinan type leaders
Nichole Sims-Cincinnati
01:17:53
@Anndell--I agree. Being the ONLY spells OPPORTUNITY. You get to set the standard.
Christopher McLaughlin
01:18:50
market yourself as the best in the state
Katie Corum
01:19:12
Thank you! Great webinar!!! :)
Florence Lye
01:19:17
Thank you!
Anndell - Henna Harvest
01:19:27
That's a good laugh (and good point) @Christopher McLaughlin
Randall Rousse
01:19:44
I would share: she could do an "interactive Session" with others, follow-ups & Live Sessions
Melissa Papke - Orange County, CA
01:19:47
Here's the link again!Sign up page for VICTORY in Life, Leadership and Businesshttps://groupsfinder.alignable.com/expert-groups/victory-in-life-leadership-and-businessNext Info Session:We just did an info session today and the Info page hasn’t been updated yet, so if you’d like to sign up for next week’s info session, please go here to sign up:https://www.alignable.com/groups/expert-group-info-sessions/events/victory-in-life-leadership-business-info-session-jan-2023-3?cyattr=t-r-1&cyfid=670fe97e290044edb7df530cb66699fe
Caroline Oyedeji
01:19:52
Thank you sooo much!
Stephani Knutson
01:19:53
How about mental health and imposter syndrome?
Nate Saucier
01:20:00
Thank you so much! This has been great!
Alice Chiou SF Ca
01:20:07
Thank you! It is a fantastic unique seminar!
Gary Lehndorff
01:20:14
Great, encouraging stuff! Thank you!
Margaret Graham Edmonton AB
01:20:15
Thank you so much for doing this Webinar. It was very interesting 😊
Caroline Mozo - Fort Lauderdale, FL
01:20:17
Thank you so much, Sue and Larry! Very insightful :) Wishing everyone the best!
Para Johnson - PA
01:20:28
Thank you
Randall Rousse
01:20:30
to share with others getting "LIVE" feed back ,from Others... in a LIVE Session.
Heather Mirczak/ Alaska / WA
01:20:36
Yes, thank you!
Deborah Cotton
01:20:48
Missed question...
Stephani Knutson
01:20:50
Any help for learning how to "toot your own horn"?
Cyndi Fifield
01:21:00
I got stuck in a call with a client so sorry I missed everything today.
Jennifer Lough Kennedy
01:21:16
Thank you--this has been very helpful--full of great information!
Janíce Obee San Ramon, CA
01:21:30
Very interesting topic and learned some great insight. Thank you Larry and Sue for hosting.
Janelle Dauenhauer
01:21:40
Thank you, Larry! Way more information that I thought I would get from this webinar.
Barbara Cassidy-Branson MO
01:21:52
This was so good thank you!
Roelf Woldring Guelph Ontario
01:21:52
Doubt is an emotion - energy to put you into motion
Aba Williams (Lorton, Virginia)
01:21:58
Thank you!
Walter II Boykin
01:21:58
Thank you