How to Deal with Difficult Circumstances, Conversations and People - Shared screen with speaker view
Hi everyone, Jane from Heart through art, https://www.linkedin.com/in/jane-cursaro-7b615317b/
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Really inspiring Elizabeth. Both overcoming challenges and the important work that you do
Do you know what triggers you in terms of conflict?
they love the DRAMA
Seek first to understand
Don't you love people who are always right?
I think the avoiding emotion is the hardest part -particularly when dealing with family members who are passive agressive
ask questions is probabaly one of the keys to everything
we must have the same father!
Elizabeth- ideally do we want to avoid emotions or do we want people to be able to talk about their emotions (the underlying things) vs 'showing' the emotion (rage, abuse...)?
loving this. Elizabeth do you have any views on how being under the same roof as a challenging person can affect a person’s confidence? best tactic?
when dealing with someone who either finds it hard/unable to take responsibility for themselves how would you maintain that confidence and calm
Ok, that's really helpful to know. Thanks Elizabeth
People struggling with anxiety can be difficult in recognising where you’re being pulled in to a power struggle or insecurity where other agenda is happening. When I can recognise where its coming from or what it is I find it easier to manage their manipulations. Any tips on this and with people showing no affect
thanks e. that’s helpful.
I mean people that give no emotion, leave you really ambiguous to what is happening between them. Eggshells is a very good conversation (esp. useful in workplace too)
We need space between though and action
Absolutely- time out works great
i think i am between freeze and anger is this possible...I freeze then anger will take form....
I’m a fighter. you - OUTSIDE! NOW!
example colleague kept going over the same thing ( her own insecurities) but got to a point I could not and dealt with it wrong as I snapped
When I recognise thats what happens then its much easier to manage
I’ve had that dealing with a work colleague where they will attack and try to make you look incompetent. Ive found these relationships can be quite dangerous.
Thats true thanks helpful
Great comments and questions thanks
am so much more aware of my facial expressions showing contempt (or boredom) now that every communication is over zoom. these are great strategies - thanks so much!
Not getting defensive you can get some great critical feedback can be extremely useful. Thanks Elizabeth
loving this empathetic front-foot stuff
Lol! I can see mistakes I’ve made here. This is one for me to keep always. Not enabling
my go to is being defensive 20 or so years later I still work on it everyday and expressions....... heart on sleeve call me an expert 🤣 also I am highly sarcastic such a bad combination 😬
thank them and delete
I only read earlier today that acting defensive sets you up for being attacked, its making so much more sense hearing it now! Thanks Elizabeth!
OMG. this is about facebook!
So so good...
Thank you helpful Elizabeth
awesome - thank you!
thank you so much
Thank you Elizabeth & Wendy
Great info- thanks Elizabeth and Wendy
Wonderful, thanks so much Elizabeth and Wendy, very helpful
Great session, thanks, Elizabeth!
I am so happy to hear these things about sarcasm. not.
Thanks Elizabeth & Wendy. Yes family seem to be ‘’contagious!’’
but srsly that is great insight
I know this about sarcasm and have been introuble for it, but it is my natural instinct to hide I am uncomfortable, so again work on it daily
I feel your pain Elisha. especially when I was younger that was my go to.
how can we work with you, Elizabeth?
thank you Matthew 🙂
Onya Wendy and Elizabeth
thank you Wendy and Elizabeth
what was the audio book and where is it available
enjoy ladies and thank you will deffinately try breathing technique