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[WSNC Deep Dive] Emotional Intelligence - Part 1 - Shared screen with gallery view
Karl M. Johanson
24:36
Karl M. Johanson, NPIP VP, (he/him) DAC Representative
nscott
25:01
Nikkole Scott Program Manager, CHA/Otto's Place Enhanced Shelter
Jennifer Garrels (she/her)
26:29
Jennifer Garrels (she/her), Board Member, Wallingford Community Senior Center
Sarah, NPIP, she/her
30:34
Hi Everyone! Welcome to our NPIP Deep Dive! I'm Sarah McDonnell - Director of NPIP. Please don't hesitate to reach out to me with any questions you might have.
Tom Lang, Washington Nonprofits (he/him)
34:11
Airing of grievances!
Wes Crago
34:28
“I have a lot of problems with you people!
Sarah Hancock
37:37
#dadjoke
Nils Peterson
38:17
I am so sorry. Please forgive my partner’s humor.
Sarah Hancock
40:17
lol ;)
Nils Peterson
01:05:03
Viktor Frankl “Man’s Search for Meaning”
Eloise Barshes
01:15:47
It seems like it's easier to get enmeshed with our children and their moods
Jessika Tempel (she/her)
01:18:58
fear
Nils Peterson
01:20:56
Enmeshment with our kids is a GIVEN. So challenging.
Nils Peterson
01:24:14
Kevin gets that way with his business partner as well!
Sarah Hancock
01:25:20
Texting her
Nils Peterson
01:25:40
She has never followed him
Jennifer Garrels (she/her)
01:26:25
Sleeps like a baby
Nils Peterson
01:29:14
Rigid/Enmeshed- highly defensive, concern about the relationship and how the other person is feeling and what they might be thinking.
Steven Weir
01:29:25
yes that one haha
Nils Peterson
01:31:51
Rigid/Cut-Off- I know I am right and unwilling to engage the other person much to explore their ideas, opinions, etc.
abailey
01:32:01
And in red sharpie, large letters!
Nils Peterson
01:32:48
Wishy-Washy/Enmeshed- What happened? Who’s upset? How can I fix it?
Steven Weir
01:33:39
if you're giving up your personal harmony for situational harmony
Steven Weir
01:33:55
resentment
Nils Peterson
01:34:48
A tip for those who are in Wishy-Washy/Enmeshed…..Choose Discomfort over Resentment.
Nils Peterson
01:35:16
Wishy-Washy/Cut Off- O
Nils Peterson
01:35:46
It’s just not worth it. Avoid. Disengage from it.
Jennifer Garrels (she/her)
01:41:56
Snark is a love language
Sarah Hancock
01:50:41
Communication re: 'why" seems like it would be helpful